Self Pleasure Picks for Singles Day: 10 Ways to Treat Yourself

Valentine’s Day gets all the attention, but November has its own love holiday, and this one’s all about you. Singles Day lands on November 11 (11.11, four ones standing proudly on their own), and it’s become the unofficial day to treat yourself. Single, coupled, situationship-ing or simply in your “me first” era, consider this your permission slip. These self pleasure picks are here to make your solo nights a lot more fun. 💜

We’ve rounded up ten favourites that are all in stock right now and priced in Canadian dollars, from a $19.99 bottle of lube to a splurge-worthy LELO. There’s a cozy night in, a few very good vibes, a couple of picks for him and the aftercare essentials. Order this month and your Singles Day date with yourself is sorted well ahead of time.

Self pleasure, but make it a whole evening

Solo play doesn’t have to be a two-minute affair squeezed in before bed. Think of it as a date where you’re both the planner and the guest of honour: run a bath, light a candle, pick a toy, take your time. Nobody’s going to judge your playlist. Want to browse while you’re here? Our full vibrators shop and the for him collection are great places to wander.

Set the mood: a bath, a candle, a little slip

Every great date starts with ambiance. Yours deserves the good bubbles.

Find more massage candles, bath and intimate wash or the whole range of water-based lube.

Good vibes only: toys for your solo date

The main event. Whether you like it petite and buzzy or fancy and fully featured, there’s a match for every mood (and every budget).

Explore more bullet and mini vibrators, air-pulse and suction toys, wand vibrators and G-spot vibrators. New to all this? Our guide to choosing your first vibrator is a friendly place to start.

Solo nights for him

Singles Day is an equal-opportunity holiday. Two strokers that turn “just a quick one” into something worth clearing your evening for.

Browse every stroker or the full for him collection.

The aftercare (yes, even solo)

The best dates end with a little tidy-up. Future you will be grateful.

See all our toy care and storage for pouches, cleaners and more.

Tips for the perfect solo date

• Put it in the calendar. Seriously. Block the time, text nobody and treat it like a reservation you’d never cancel.
• Set the scene for you. Fresh sheets, your favourite candle, a snack within reach and a playlist you love. You’re worth the effort.
• Phone in the drawer. Not face down. In the drawer. The group chat will survive.
• Start low, go slow. Begin on the gentlest setting and work your way up. There’s no finish line, so explore, take breaks and see what you like.
• Lube is your friend. Use a water-based lube with silicone toys, and check the label before using any oil or candle with a toy or condom.
• Charge before date night. Nothing kills the mood like a blinking low-battery light. Top up your rechargeable toys the day before.
• Clean up after. Wash your toys with warm water and a toy cleaner, let them dry fully, then store them in a pouch or drawer away from other toys.

Build your Singles Day treat-yourself kit

One of our favourite combos: the Womanizer Pro, the Light My Fire Lotus Flower massage candle, Sliquid H2O and the Le Wand Toy Cleaner. Together they come to $144.96 CAD, which sails past the $129 mark for free discreet shipping anywhere in Canada. Orders over $129 (before tax, after coupons) ship free with Canada Post in discreet packaging. Orders under $129 ship for a flat $12.95.

You take everyone else out for birthdays and celebrations. This month, take yourself out. Pick a toy, plan your night and give yourself the Singles Day you deserve. 🛁✨

FAQ

When is Singles Day?

Singles Day is on November 11 every year. The date, 11.11, looks like four ones standing side by side, which is how it became a day to celebrate being single and treating yourself. In 2026 it falls on a Wednesday.

What are good self pleasure toys for beginners?

A small bullet vibrator like the Gaia Eco Rechargeable Bullet ($30.99 CAD) or a touch-free air-pulse toy like the Womanizer Pro ($69.99 CAD) are easy, friendly places to start. Pair either with a water-based lube and go slow. The picks above range from $19.99 to $153.99 CAD.

What lube should I use with my toys?

A water-based lube like Sliquid H2O is a safe bet with most toys, including silicone ones. Always check your toy’s instructions and the lube label to be sure they’re compatible.

Do you offer free shipping in Canada?

Yes. Orders over $129 (before tax and after coupons) ship free anywhere in Canada with Canada Post, in discreet packaging. Orders under $129 ship for a flat $12.95. You can read more on our FAQ page.